I' a 30 year old male and have a cleft palate condition. My
face and lip is not distorted at all. No one knows of my
condition, untill I do not start talking. When I talk, everyone
thinks that my speach is either pulled tooth, or my foreign
accent. Because of that it is hard for me to meet new people, and
now at age 30, I can see that this condotion effects my work
relationships in my engineering field. Once, I was not promoted
to a chief engineering position, because of my "limited
verbal skills". Not to mention, as we all, had a horrible
childhood. Unfortunately, I grew up in a poor european country,
where medical treatments/surgeries for this conditions were not a
great success, and my parents would not take chances in making
things worse. Now, at age 30, I live in Boston, MA, have a very
good profession, and still am hunted every day by the fact that I
speak "funny". Can someone please help me with any info
regarding my condition - mainly surgeries at my age? How
successful are they, and how would the recovery effect my
profesional life? Also, does anyone know if my health insure
would cover any of this - either Pilgrim, Tufts, or Harvard?
Please help. Tired of it all... Jerry