Thanks for the plug for the club, whoever you are
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I'm the founder of the club and also cleft and a mom. My little girl is 16 motnhs old and cleft-free, also free of any other conditions. But even before she was born I felt that if she did have a cleft she would have it better than I did. Even though my parents never heard of a cleft lip or palate before, they were great raising me. And since I knew first hand what it's like, I felt that I could help my child deal with issues and be less hurt, not to say that my mom wasn't there for me,...she just didn't know how to relate to what I was going through (she and my dad have admitted that more than once o me).
But remember: IT'S NOT YOUR FAULT!! That's very important! Just like you, your child is very improtant no matter how he/she comes into the world. And you never know what great things they will do with there life
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And now my brain has turned to mush and I forgot what I was going to say....that's what I get for staying up late, LOL
Hang in there! Your baby will be a joy
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Calvero
Born to be Cleft
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The Cleft Club
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