Hi, Congradulations on your child's operation and his starting of school. i was borned with a cleft lip only and know how hard it is while growing up. I'm 38 with 3 beautful children.
![Smile :)](./images/smilies/icon_smile.gif)
I believe that having a good plastic surgion is the best thing for a child borned with a cleft. Also, I don't think you can actually prepare him for how other's may treat him? we cannot control or predict how people will act or say. I believe the best thing you could do for your son is to shower him with affectionate love!!
![Smile :)](./images/smilies/icon_smile.gif)
make him feel special. tell him he's beautiful. sit your son on your lap in-front of a mirror and tell him that he looks beautiful. tell him also that he looks even more beautiful in person. (You know? my mom told me when i was young that whenever i looked in the mirror, whatever i see, i look 10 times better in person!) Being born with a cleft, we go through alot. i always wished even till today that i had a normal looking nose and lip. When i look in the mirror today, i don't like how i look. but when i'm around people, i feel good about myself and feel more attractive. Do you see a connection? Opps, sorry for rambling. haha, back to what i was saying ... build good communication skills with your son so you'll know much how his day went and also, he'd be comfortable in expressing himself. Whenever your son has a hard time or had been talked about in school, he'll be more likely to forget what happened if he could come home to a loving family. I better end this note. i maybe rambling. haha If you have any more questions or fears? please feel free to e-mail me. I would love to share whatever i have to offer.
![Smile :)](./images/smilies/icon_smile.gif)
good luck and remember ... don't be late for school!
![Smile :)](./images/smilies/icon_smile.gif)