I am have a cleft lip/palet. My two older brothers do as well. The most severe case begins with my oldest brother and is less severe for our middle brother and is the least severe for me. I have no speech impediment, and only a small scar along the middle of my upper lip. Our younger sister was not born with this birth defect, and our parents are not afflicted. I can not find any evidence along either side of my parents families. No Grandparents, Uncles, Aunts, or Cousins are afflicted either, my brothers and I are the only three born with this genetic trait.
My question is, my wife and I are thinking of starting a family and I want to know what is the likely hood that my children will be born with this trait? Any serious medical opinions would be greatly appreciated.