My son was born with a very small cleft palate. He is now going on 71/2months. He's already had his 2nd visit to a facility(which I may be switching since I've gotten some conflicting information since my son's 1st visit.)My question is, are there some palates that are not in need of surgery or do all palates, small or big require surgery? If it's as small as they say would he have the speech and hearing problems? I'm going to a children's hospital in 2wks since they deal with children only. Me and my husband are set on having surgery if needed(small palate or not.) My problem is trying to explain to family members who see that he is developing normal now why put him through the surgery if not needed. If anyone can give me any information regarding small palates versus others and can give me any advice on how to advise family members I would appreciate it.
Sincerly, Bridget