by MacRay52@aol.com » Tue Jun 05, 2001 6:04 pm
I am trying to deal with the feelings that I have toward my mother-in-law over her views on raising a child with a cleft lip.(My husband was born with a bilaterial cleft lip and palete, our daughter a unilaterial cleft lip) She won't even tell her friends that she was born with a cleft. They never saw pictures until after her surgery was 4 months post-op. I think that her views are outdated and harmful to my daughters confidence when she grows up. Please Help!