by Anonymous » Fri Jan 18, 2002 6:19 am
Hi,
The best choice for your daughter is to have the surgery, she can't make the choice for herself you being the mom have to, even if it scares you.
This surgery isn't being done for your benefit it is for Kera. She is four months old I am sure very healthy. Some babies have this suregery at a few weeks old. Mine was 6 weeks old, I never once thought of postponing it or not doing it because I was afraid and believe me I was. I had to think about her future and what was best for her. (feeding her that in its self was reason enough to do it...) Being parents, having children WE ARE going to be afraid for our kids, like learning independence, but we can't stop them from becoming independant or shelter them, that would only make us feel better and eventually hurt our children. Just like not having this surgery would. I am wondering why you feel having this surgery would make people treat your kid differently? To me not having the surgery would result in people treating her differently.
If you think about what is going to help your child, I am sure you will make the right decision.
Sherry