by Anonymous » Thu Feb 22, 2001 11:20 am
I hope you find the decision that's right for you ... if this child is to be one of your family, the cleft will soon become the least noticable part of him . Every other wonderful facet of his character and looks will more than compensate ( if compensation is even needed) for the cleft. Both my kids had clefts. Although the time of theops are tough, when they are out of the way we've found in an irrelevance. My youngest needed minor speech therapy, but less than your 'average' child, and we wouldn't change them for the world. The cleft, day to day, is much less of an inconvenience than, say, exzcema.
All the best wishes in the world for you and your family, and good luck in making a decision which suits you all.
Mitchy