HI, I have a sister-in-law who was born with CL&P that is almost 15 years old, however has the developmental level of a 9 year old. She has also scored in the 80's on her IQ test. She was MAJOR suprise to their family. (she was born 12 years after my husband!) MY PROBLEM? Her parents live in a SMALL town--and did not have the information about CL&P like there is today. They carry massive guilt by the way they treat her.. (NO boundries, or limited disipline) She RUNS the house, is disrespectful to her parents,sassy, throws temper tantrums, and has no *true* friends. Her mom is her best friend... how unhealthy! Her parents have protected her from the outside world and plan on her living with them for the rest of their lives! I REALLY want to help them realize that just because she was born with a facial deformity doesn't mean she isn't normal! I would also like to help her become a teenager with meaning and goals in her life.
Can anyone else relate? How should I handle this.. I'm having a hard time watching them destroy their future.
Thanks,
Cathy